Escaping the matrix and leaving our phones is no less than a challenge, even for grown-ups like us. So, think of your kids. Making kids leave their mobile phones and touch some grass is an even bigger challenge.
Whereas modern gadgets are a big help to help kids develop minds and stay up-to-date, their overuse can cause significant harm to their mental and physical health. Surprising and unfortunate enough, 87% of children exceed recommendations.
With being surrounded by modern tech from each corner, their overall lifestyle is impacted wrongly. Hence, you, as a parent, must take the command into your hands and work on reducing your screen time.
To help you with that, this article brings some tantrum-free tips that can help you reduce your children’s screen time.
Parents have to lead by example, children mimic their environment, especially younger ones., so limit the time spent on your own devices.
If your phone is the center of the world for you, your kids will hold technology as a necessity, too.
Older children might have a worse case. They may even use what they see to argue, giving you no leg to stand on if you are guilty of too much screen time yourself.
So, the best way is to set an example by enjoying balanced off-screen time. Whether it is reading or popping out for a walk, you are demonstrating that entertainment and enjoyment exist beyond screens.
A great way to minimize tech use in your home is to designate spaces where tech is banned from use.
This sets a physical boundary in the home and ensures that the space is used to enjoy other aspects of life.
This is a tip that works really well for older children; remember, 41% of American teens average 8 hours of screen time daily.
Place a basket in your designated space and insist that devices are emptied out of pockets and remain there while the space is used.
Children won’t see it as so much of a time-reduction when relating it to a physical area. But when you dedicate a zone, it automatically eliminates certain hours of the day in which screen time will be reduced.
You can start noticing the changes instantly after you start practicing this trick.
Where to make this spot? This could be the family dining area, prompting socializing around the table. We eat several times a day, which reduces screen time and promotes good manners.
You could even choose the bedroom to ensure that the space is used for play and rest. This helps promote healthy sleep patterns.
Busy and active households might find the car could work well, letting you enjoy the commute as a family.
Many children are tied to screens because they are bored or can’t think of something else to do. Organizing fun off-screen activities is a great way to limit their screen time.
Your children will be less reliant on screens to engage their minds if the physical alternative captures their attention. Creative activities such as arts and crafts or work, as does building a family fort.
Children need very clear boundaries and routines; you can limit screen time with tools and discuss it with older children.
There are a variety of apps and parental control tools that can help you with setting and sticking to a daily screen time limit.
Older children might try to interfere with you and some are more tech-savvy than you, but there are many apps to help tackle and enforce screen time and internet access. So use them to your advantage.
There are always some ways to get out of this situation.
Spending time outside and participating in outdoor activities is a great way to reduce the hours your child is glued to a device. You can even insist that everything is left at home.
Sports, daily walks, fishing, and biking are all fantastic screen-free activities that will get you out and about.
Being in nature boosts our moods and your children will forget about their flash games when they are focusing on fun activities. The bonus is they get to blow off a little steam and might sleep better.
Rather than limiting their access as though it was some sort of cruel punishment, schedule a screenless family time that is more engaging than what is on mobile phones. Also, make sure they see that the rule applies to everyone.
Family board game night or planning a day trip can be the best way you can reduce screen time positively and bond as a family.
Whether it is charades or camping, it is a great way to escape from that technological pull.
Change screen times in your home. By making it a reward, you shift your child’s view of screen time, which helps reduce it.
Make a reward chart and have them earn their gadgets and their screen time with age-appropriate chores, good behavior, and tasks such as completed homework.
If they have to earn it, they won’t take it for granted and will stop seeing it as something they have the right to do regardless.
Screen time also needs to be responsible in terms of use as well as hours used, and education is an important step.
Have open discussions about why it’s necessary to balance tech use. Also, ensure they understand how much time is appropriate for their age.
Teach them about how the overuse of mobile phones and gadgets can affect them negatively and instill some online safety.
Older children can be taught about the dangers of public Wi-Fi, and you can install cybersecurity tools on devices, such as VPNs for privacy—Surfshark is a great example.
None of the tips we have outlined are workable without consistency. If you don’t stick to the rules, then you create confusion with them.
Enforce the rules you establish in your home around screen time. Expect the boundaries to be tested and pushed to their limits, but remain firm if you want them to become habits and rules in your house.
Reducing screen time can seem like an impossible task. It is often met with frustration, but with the above tips and tricks up your sleeves, it needn’t be a huge problem.
Setting an example yourself and scheduling activities without technology is a great way to effectively reduce screen time without it being seen negatively.
Open discussions and boundary setting can go a long way to reducing screen time and keeping it safe.
Children ultimately want to spend time doing things they enjoy, and the key is to make a tech-free life as enjoyable as their favorite video game or website.
With today’s suggestions, you will spend much more quality time offline together, regardless.