How to Set Up Discord Parental Controls? – Family Center, Filtering Explicit Content, Blocking Accounts, and More

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We all know that Discord is not only for playing games, as users can form/join all types of communities and discuss all sorts of topics. If your kids are using the platform, there’s always a risk of coming across mature content and other security issues.

Hence, every parent should know about setting up Discord parental controls to keep an eye on their children. And this write-up will help you with that. Read on!

Quick Answer: Discord has a built-in parental control option called the Family Center. With this, you can monitor the servers joined by your child, the number of direct messages sent, and the number of voice calls they’ve participated in.

How to Set Up Discord Parental Controls?

Discord comes with built-in parental controls and opt-in tools to keep your children away from potential dangers while respecting their autonomy. However, you need an account on the app, and you can proceed further with the methods given below:

Notes

In order to set up parental controls on Discord, you must have your own account and link your kid’s account with yours. Also, it is mandatory to have the official app installed on your phone and the desktop as well.

Set Up Family Center

With the help of the Family Center, you’ll be aware of your children’s activity on Discord. Moreover, you’ll get to know who their friends are and what kind of groups they’ve joined.

Follow these steps to set it up:

  • Now, click Family Center from the list of options at the left.
    Click Family Center
  • Then, click Connect with Parent.
    Click Connect with Parent 
  • As you click on it, you’ll see the option “Reveal QR Code.” Click on it.
    Click Reveal QR Code
  • Now, install open, and log in to the Discord app on your phone. 
  • Tap the Settings icon at the top right.
    Tap Settings
  • Now, tap the Family Center option.
    Family centerr
  • Tap Connect with Teen.
    Tap Connect with Teen
  • Now, scan the QR Code appearing on the computer screen.
  • This will send a connection request to your teen. Ask them to open their Discord, go to the INCOMING PARENT REQUESTS section, and accept the request.
  • Once they accept the request, you’ll be able to see their activities under the ACTIVITY SUMMARY.
    Kid’s activity summary

Filter Explicit Content

Family Center only gives you the number of added friends, servers joined, and more. But, it will not filter any mature content on the platform. 

To ensure that your child never comes across any explicit content, follow these steps:

Notes

The steps mentioned below are created using Discord on desktop mode. You can follow the same steps for the app for your smartphone or desktop.

  • On your child’s Discord account, open Settings >> Privacy & Safety.
     Settings & Privacy & Safety
  • Select Filter all direct messages.
    Select Filter all direct message

Block Strangers From Sending DMs

Being active on Discord means any person using the platform can send you a message. So, to prevent strangers from sending direct messages to your child:

  • Go to User Settings >> Privacy & Safety.
  • Scroll down to the section SERVER PRIVACY DEFAULTS.
  • Turn off the toggle to Enable message requests from server members you may not know.
    Turn off the toggle2

You can restrict other options as well, like direct messages from server members and age-restrict commands so that your kids never come across any Discord blocked message. 

Also, you can turn off Discord direct message notifications as a safety measure as well.

Turn on Two-Factor Authentication

To protect your child’s account from hacking, you can simply enable two-factor authorization. Follow these steps:

  • Go to Settings >> My Account.
  • Scroll down and click Register a Security Key under Password and Authentication.
    Register a Security Key
  • Now, enter a password and click Continue.
Click Continue

Now, no other person can sign in to your kid’s account as it will need authentication from two different options.

Set Data Privacy Controls

Discord gives you the benefit of deciding how they can store and use your data. So, you can set data privacy controls by following these steps:

  • Go to User Settings >> Privacy & Safety.
  • Scroll down to HOW WE USE YOUR DATA.
  • Now, you can turn off the toggle for every option there regarding data usage.Turn off the toggle1

Manage Friend Requests

Discord allows you to receive friend requests from anyone, from your friend’s friends, or server members. To choose who can send requests to your child:

  • Go to User Settings >> Friend Requests.
  • Now, you can turn the toggle on or off as per the options given.Manage friend requests

Alt: Manage friend requests 

Enabling requests from friends of friends is the safest option here. So, you can disable the other two options to avoid any unwanted interactions.

Final Words

Even though the parental control options on Discord are limited, they still can help you monitor your children’s activity. The Family Center can show you the numbers but won’t allow you to read the messages. 

Moreover, you can manage friend requests, and data usage, block strangers from sending DMs, and turn on two-factor authentication. Last but not least, using third-party apps can also be a viable solution.

FAQ

Is Discord safe for kids?

Discord has many active servers and many of them show content that could be inappropriate for kids. You can allow your kids to use the app but can set parental controls to reduce the risk.

Is Discord safe?

If you’re using Discord while taking care of all kinds of risk factors, it can be considered a safe app.

Are there parental controls in Discord?

Discord has an opt-in tool called Family Center that helps parents to track their kid’s activity.

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